So Today, It is Ellie and Joe's Three Year Anniversary...
Congratulations!
I've watched my best friend's relationship with Joe bloom over the years. I remember when they first started seeing each other! Of course, I had to do the best friend duty of the 'Seal of approval'.
When I first met Joe, he definitely met many of my expectations of what Ellie needed/wanted. But don't be fooled, I'm still waiting for him to tick certain boxes till he reaches the 10/10 approval, Even after three years. Mwu Ha Ha!
I've always been envious of Ellie and her tight relationship with her boyfriend. They have been through the typical ups and downs. In my eyes, it has made them both even stronger than ever.
Give me some tips Ellie! *Bows Down*
For the viewers that are wondering about my own love life? Non-existent.
I've always asked Ellie's advice at how she has kept her sparkle in the relationship. I think personally, God planted the good seed in her life.
For all of you single-tons out there, I feel your pain. For most of us modern day singles, we are awkwardly venturing onto the cyber dating world. The disasters of finding a decent profile pictures and the cringe worthy biographies. Yes! This picture shows I am constantly happy, Yes this photograph shows I have a social life. Yes this photograph really shows my extensive range of hobbies. I ask myself, Am I interesting?, Am I sexy? Am I cool? No Ronnie. Just try and be yourself.
To be honest most of the guys in the UK just message you for "Would you like some fun?",
Play Dumb Girls and delete!
So as I am writing this blog out, Listening to Taylor Swift album, hairbrush in my hand and wearing my biggest pants I could find. It's hard to cheer yourself up. Waiting all night for a blooming miracle. It's hard to be content in yourself when you feel something is missing.
Nostalgia always kicks in. I think I've only been in love once. I met him when I just turned eighteen years old. I was in the the most popular nightclub in my city. I looked across the room, I caught him starring at me. I was wearing this fabulous orange beach dress, with some gold strappy heels. At the time I thought I had a wardrobe malfunction, my makeup wasn't incredible, but he seemed to think different! I didn't think much of him at the time. Eventually he tracked me down on Facebook. On our first date, we blossomed into something more than what I ever expected. Unfortunately after over an incredible year and a half, he fell out of love.
It's sad to say "Honey, this is life!", but girls you have got to pick yourselves back up and keep moving. These key moments in our lives result in creating ourselves as better people. We need experiences, relationships to understand. People come and go out of our lives. I hold no grudges anymore, Just more love.
To finish off, the best advice Ellie has given me about love is...